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Sharp Details: Accessorizing the Modern Groom with Style and Meaning
Weddings today are more than just ceremonies—they’re curated experiences, visual stories, and personal milestones that reflect not only a couple’s love but also their sense of style. And while brides have long taken center stage in fashion planning, the modern groom is now stepping up, embracing the spotlight with confidence and class. From unexpected florals to unique fabrics and statement pieces like luxury watches, grooms are reimagining formalwear with sophistication and substance.
Today’s groom isn’t just dressing up—he’s showing up. With every accessory chosen, he communicates a part of who he is and the love story he’s about to celebrate. In this post, as part of our groom tips, we explore how to accessorize the groom with style and meaning.
Why Accessories Matter More Than Ever
Gone are the days of the “standard black tux and done” approach. Grooms now have the freedom—and the platform—to showcase individuality in ways that feel authentic. And accessories are the secret weapon in achieving that.
According to The New York Times, modern grooms are choosing non-traditional suits, playing with colors and cuts, and paying close attention to details that help tell their personal story. Accessories, once overlooked, are now the focal point of groom styling, transforming basic looks into bespoke expressions. I recently chatted with a groom, Mark, who was so excited about choosing a non-traditional suit in a deep teal. He told me that for him, the accessories were key to pulling it all together and showing his personality. It’s all about those thoughtful details that make a look uniquely yours.
The beauty of accessories is their power to elevate without overpowering. Whether it’s a well-placed boutonnière or a standout timepiece, these choices provide a refined touch that says, This is who I am, not just what I’m wearing.
The Essential Groom’s Accessory Checklist
1. The Watch: More Than Just Time
A classic watch is a statement of maturity, punctuality, and elegance—exactly the energy you want on your wedding day. Quality timepieces like Breitling watches don’t just keep you on schedule; it become part of the story. Imagine passing it down to your future children or wearing it on every anniversary—this is fashion with emotional resonance.
Whether you’re in a sleek modern tux or a casual linen suit, there’s a model that aligns with your aesthetic. Steel and black for a sharp urban look, or leather and gold tones for a rustic, romantic vibe.
Our Experience:
I remember at one wedding, the groom, James, was wearing this absolutely stunning vintage watch. When I complimented him on it, he shared that it was a gift from his grandfather and held so much sentimental value. It wasn’t just about telling time; it was a piece of his history that he was carrying with him on his wedding day. Such a meaningful touch!
2. Pocket Squares: The Smallest Splash of Personality
This tiny square of fabric can be a game-changer. Go beyond the expected white and play with texture, pattern, and hue. Silk for shine, linen for ease, or even a printed square that tells a story, such as a floral motif representing your partner’s bouquet or your wedding destination. Check this Pinterest page for ideas.
Pro tip: Don’t match it exactly to your tie. Instead, let it complement or subtly contrast for a more curated look.
Our Experience:
At another wedding I attended, the groom, Ben, had the most amazing pocket square with a subtle floral print that perfectly picked up the colors in the bridal bouquet. It was such a small detail, but it added this lovely, cohesive touch to his look without being overly matchy-matchy. It really showed his attention to detail.
3. Boutonnières: A Nod to Nature and Narrative
A boutonnière adds life to your lapel. Literally. Choose blooms that are part of your wedding color palette or hold sentimental value—maybe your partner’s favorite flower or a bloom native to the place you first met. For a bolder touch, dried flowers or unexpected elements like berries or herbs can offer a textural twist.
And if you want something more permanent, consider a metal or wooden alternative that doubles as a keepsake.
Our Experience:
I absolutely adore a thoughtful boutonnière! I remember one groom who chose a sprig of rosemary in his, not just because it looked lovely, but because it was the herb his partner always used when they cooked together. It was such a sweet and personal nod to their shared life.
Watch this reel to get an idea:
4. Shoes That Ground Your Look
Your footwear can make or break your whole outfit. Oxfords and brogues are always a safe bet, but today’s grooms are venturing into suede loafers, velvet slippers, or even luxury sneakers. The goal? Choose something that’s formal enough for the event but authentic enough to feel like you.
Think of them as your first steps into marriage—make them count.
Our Experience:
The shoes definitely matter! I recall one very stylish groom who opted for these gorgeous suede loafers in a rich burgundy color. They were formal enough for the occasion but still had that cool, individual vibe. He said he wanted something he could wear again, which is always a smart choice!
To learn more – watch this shoe guide for grooms:
5. Cufflinks and Tie Bars: Understated Sophistication
These accessories might be small, but they have big potential. Cufflinks can tell a personal story—engraved with initials, wedding date, or even coordinates of where you got engaged. Tie bars add a polished edge, keep things tidy, and show you thought of everything. The Knot has some great tips on how to wear your cufflinks.
Bonus: These make excellent groom gifts from a partner or best man.
Our Experience:
It’s often the smallest details that leave the biggest impression. I remember seeing a groom whose cufflinks were engraved with his and his partner’s initials and their wedding date. It was such a subtle yet incredibly personal touch. These little pieces can really elevate a look.
Watch this reel to get a glimpse:
6. The Signature Scent
Not quite an accessory in the traditional sense, but scent is a powerful memory trigger. Choosing a new cologne or grooming oil for your wedding day creates a sensory bookmark—you’ll be transported back to that day with just a whiff.
Opt for notes that feel warm, clean, and confident. Think cedarwood, bergamot, or vetiver.
Our Experience:
Scent is so powerful! I remember a bride telling me how her groom chose a new cologne specifically for their wedding day. She said that even now, years later, that scent instantly brings her back to their wedding. It’s like creating a beautiful olfactory memory.
Finding Your Style Balance
Every groom has a different vibe. Some prefer lean, minimalist and classic, others love color and flair. The key is balance. If you’re wearing a bold-colored suit, maybe keep accessories more understated. If your outfit is neutral, go ahead and let your shoes or watch shine.
Also, think about your partner’s look—complementing without matching is the sweet spot. Coordination shows cohesion, but individuality shows confidence.
Beyond the Day: Wearability and Meaning
I always love it when a groom chooses accessories that they can wear again. A quality watch, a stylish pair of shoes, or even a classic tie can become staples in their wardrobe long after the wedding day. It’s not just about looking good on the day, but investing in pieces that have lasting meaning.
Choosing something with longevity is also inherently sustainable. It’s the antithesis of throwaway fashion—buy less, but better.
Your wedding look should reflect your personality just as much as it celebrates your partnership. The right accessories don’t scream for attention—they speak with purpose. Because when the details are sharp, the memory stays sharper.
